Love With Outer Limits

Love with Outer limits. What does that mean??

In life, we have many types of Love. Our First Love is our parents. We learn to love them without limits. We may not like what they say or do. We get angry with them when they discipline us. We get upset when they give us chores. We may even get made when they take us to places; we do not want to go, such as a church, relocating to another state or events. However, no matter what they say or do. We still love them.

The second type of Love we have is siblings if you have one or a many you understand. We do not have a choice of our siblings; they may live in your household or not. Then there are siblings with great relationships or do not have a relationship at all. Even if you grew up in the same family, your relationship could be stress, but you still have Loved for one another. Sibling love is different than a parent's Love—another form of Love with outer limits.

The third, other family members, these you have no choice as well. These family members came with the parents you were blessed to have. In your extended family, you have members that you are closed too as well as no relationship at all. Since you share the same bloodline, there is a form of Love. Love with outer limits.

The Forth are friends, who are as close as a biological family member. However, friends are such a delicate term because friends are a perspective term. Our Love for our friends can be just as strong as any family member we may have. I know that I have a friend that is so close that she is like a sister at 25+ years of friendship. And a friend like that is a Love with Outer Limits.

The last Love I will talk about is a spouse or a significant other. Now this Love has limits. This type of Love can grow strong that you fill like you cannot live without the other person or fall so low that you cannot wait to get that person out of your life. This Love is limited to what you will accept from the other person. The outer limits of Love do not reach beyond your values.

The love outer limits is Love that you have no control. You emerge in Love with no say so. The Love that you feel for a family is different from the Love you have with your spouse or significant other.

I learned that my childhood affects how I love my parents, siblings, extended family, friends, and spouse. My childhood taught me what I would and would not accept in all my relationships. Therefore, Love with Outer Limits is real, and there are limits.

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